Your Parenting On Purpose Toolbox
This is where I share weekly tools and strategies to help support you both as a parent, and in living your best life — so you can be an example of what's possible for your kids.
Feel free to browse or find what you need in the categories in the right-hand column. I hope this inspires you, and by all means: COMMENT. I'm always open to feedback.
As parents, we all know that reading to our children is important, but did you know that you can help your child learn other lessons and helpful skills through reading? Studies have been done with children as young as 18-24 months, finding that parents were able to help teach their children to help and share through reading. When using books to help your child learn lessons and skills, the key is how you...
For most kids, each new school year means getting to know a new teacher and getting used to different social dynamics within the classroom. This may not cause issues for outgoing and flexible kids, but it can make for a difficult start to the new school year for children who struggle developmentally, socially, and academically.
One way to help your kids have a successful start to the year is to prepare a quick and...
Is your child anxious about school or starting a new activity? Each new school year means new teachers, different social dynamics, and new things to learn. With so many things being new and unknown, it’s normal for a child to be anxious. As parents, how we handle our child’s anxiety can have a significant impact, so I coach and teach around it often this time of year.
I invite you to pause and think...
Is your child starting school soon? Kids can experience a wide range of feelings, from anxiety to excitement over the first day of school. Heightened emotions in any direction will affect your child’s ability to control their impulses and their behavior, but there are things that you can do to help calm their nervous system and prepare them for a good first day of school.
What to do the night before:
...Are you looking forward to your kids returning to school? It’s that time of year when we all start thinking about kids going back to school, and I do a lot of coaching on how to help kids prepare for the transition.
Here are a couple of things I recommend you do in the two weeks leading up to the first day of school:
Start using your child’s school bed and wake-up times.
Children often go to bed and...
Do you have a little one starting preschool or kindergarten? Little ones starting school for the first time can experience a whole host of different feelings ranging from pride at being a “big kid” that goes to school to anxiety about being separated from you and not knowing what to expect.
This time of year I do a great deal of coaching on how to prepare kids for school. Knowing that...
Do you have a child that has a hard time falling asleep at night? This is quite common, and I’m working with several clients right now who are struggling to get their young children to settle down at a decent hour. I have one Mom of a 4-year-old who really pushes the limits and battles both going to bed as well as waking up super early.
Typically when parents tell me their kids have a hard time...
Do you battle with your kids over screen time? Do you have a child that begs for screen time, and then has a meltdown whenever they’re asked to shut off the device? If so, know that you’re not alone.
I work with many parents who have these battles, and it’s one that I had myself for many years.
I have a child who loved technology and video games from a very early age. As a...
What did you learn about being a parent from your Dad? As another Father’s Day is upon us, I took time to think about my relationship with my own Dad, what I learned from him, and what parenting qualities I appreciated and wanted to carry on for my own children.
Let me start with a little background… My Dad came from a large family of 14, with 9 brothers and 4 sisters. He...
As we get closer to the end of the school year and the start of summer — with extra activities and schedule changes — are you experiencing more behavior issues with your child?
This is an issue that I often see come up this time of year. Parents are showing up for coaching meetings in a bit of a panic because the outbursts are unpredictable and seem to be ramping up. I had one mom...
Are you struggling to stay on top of everything as the end of the school year approaches?
Traditionally, this is a hectic time of year for many parents — All of the end of the year activities, awards, final parties, field trips, playoffs, recitals… It can be overwhelming for even the most organized of parents! I had one mom wondering if she was the only one wishing her son’s team...
Are you in the final countdown, caught up in all of the end of year activities as the school year winds down?
I just got back from a trip to South Carolina to celebrate our nephew’s graduation. My sister-in-law was so excited and grateful to have everyone visiting, yet she couldn’t wait for it all to be over. Staying on top of everything that needed to be done for her son, planning the...